Let's Talk About Sex!

“If you don’t laugh at least once during sex, than you’re having sex with the wrong person”.  I read this quote the other day and as a couples therapist (and a married person myself) I just loved it. 

I loved it because it’s true and also because I feel like it takes some of the movie-like expectations out of sex. We all know what sex looks like in the movies, right?  You know, excitingly passionate, flawlessly choreographed, and completely spontaneous.  But that’s just the movies.