What do you WANT out of your relationship?

One important thing to know about me….I love my job. 

If you’ve met me in real life, you’ve probably heard me say this before. I feel completely honored to get invited into people’s relationships to help, encourage, support and guide as they get it back on track.

One of the coolest parts of my job is when folks start to better identify what they actually want from their relationship. This may seem like an obvious one, but it’s harder than you think. 

You see, what you wanted in your relationship when it first started is likely very different from what you want or need from it now.  And oftentimes life can pass by so quickly that you haven’t taken the time to slow down and even identify what you want or need.

And identifying it is a MUST. Because if you don’t know what you need, how is your partner able to attempt to meet that need?  Right? It’s an impossible circle.

And that’s what this week’s relationship tip is all about….

If you know what you want in love, it makes it easier to ask for it.

Use this meme as a reminder to slow down and ask yourself what do you want and need in your love relationship right now. Not what you USED to want and not what you may WANT IN THE FUTURE. I’m talking RIGHT NOW.

My hope is that once you identify your wants and needs you’ll be able to find a way to share them with your mate. Because remember, you can’t ask your partner to meet a need that you haven’t shared with them.

Have a lovely week,

- A